There is no one but me and a few of my friends who go to both graves. Some people think it's a bad idea.Some people think it's heroic.I think they're both being silly. I don't go to try and disrespect some special rules or stop any kind of war. I go because I believe that no matter where you came from or what you believed in,when you die, you want flowers on your grave and people who visit you and remember you that way. I'm not any kind of traitor or any kind of hero. I am the sister of Rogelio Bautista,and I say his name so you will hear it and be one more person that remembers him. I want everyone to remember all the boys,red and blue,in my cemetery. When we remember,we put flowers on their graves.